No Matter What I Try, I Can't Seem To Tongue Bend
David:
Since I started your lessons almost 2 months ago, I have been getting up nearly every weekday morning and practicing for an hour before I go to work. Your lessons are supreme. Your website is bar none, the very best! I can't thank you enough for this!
On the topic of bending though, I will literally sit for hours trying like mad to keep my tongue on the harmonica and contortion my mouth and tongue into more twists turns and bends than I ever thought possible, with no luck whatsoever. I have learned only tongue blocking so I didn't start as a pucker player like some. I've now learned if I center the hole on my lower lip, and pull my tongue in, I can bend. I can even bend all the way on hole 3. But put that tongue back on the holes where it's supposed to go, and she's gone! I mean I try like mad to bend my tongue in the back and it just doesn't want to bend that way. It is quite frustrating! I thought at first I was bending but once I put an app on my phone similiar to Harp Ninja (freebie one) I could see I wasn't. Now I can tell if I am or not.
Do you ever find people who's tongues literally cannot bend that way? I know! It sounds like the whiner's way out for a question, but I've got to ask. I've even practiced to and from work while driving (looks crazy I'm sure!), most of those two months and still I cannot get any bends with my tongue on the holes.
Thanks for any comments!
-Todd
Evening Todd. A couple quick points...
1) "pointing the harp to my bottom lip and then some" is fine as long as you're not constricting the hole of the harmonica... in other words the bend is not happening by "pushing" your harp to your lips. This will create a slight bend, but is not how bending is done. The tone is bad, depth is limited and not practical while playing.
2) "pressing the flat of my tongue over and to the bottom of the holes to create less of an air passage" same point here, as long as you're not "squeezing" the hole.
Now, the uvula questions...
To close off the nasal cavity, one raises the soft palate. Are you saying there's a hole in your soft palate?
Pretent to blow out a candle... is air coming out of your nose when you're blowing out that candle, or is it all going out of your mouth only?
Here's a follow-on to David's candle exercise: Can you blow up a balloon? If so, you can block airflow to your nasal passages.
Don't have a balloon handy? Try simply closing your lips together so air can't get in or out, and try blowing out. If your cheeks puff out because the air can't get out – or if you try to inhale and your cheeks suck in – then you're closing off the nasal passages and you're good to go.
I'm glad you're making progress Todd. Bending is not rough on harmonica, but someone learning how to bend is... so yes, you're going to go through harmonicas unfortunately. In most cases it has to do with playing too loud, so try to keep your volume in check.
The fact that you can blow up a balloon means that you can close off your nasal cavity, this is good news.
I have had students that had their uvula removed after already knowing how to play the harmonica and they (two students) reported after the initial soreness that it did not effect their bending, not vibrato... that's more good news.
The fact that you're feeling like you're "gagging" when trying to bend is the indicator that you're humping your tongue too far back in your mouth. On an A harmonica none of the bends will have your tongue hump up that fat back. Explore the "she" "key" "koo" I teach in the bending lesson, the humped range is in there. This is more good news... as I state in the lessons, if you hump your tongue too far back... no bend. If your tongue humps too far forwards... no bend.
We're narrowing it down... keep experimenting.
Hello Todd, I'm glad to hear you're making progress.
I'm not familiar with Danny Boy (I know of the song, but have not played it myself). This website says 3" http://www.wildflowerharmonica.com/tabs/danny-boy/, I don't know if it's accurate, but it's a start.
P.S., resist the urge to change your angle of play on the harmonica for bending. Whatever angle you use for everyday play should be the angle it stays at for bending. I personally always tilt the face of my harmonica downwards about thirty degrees.
Good evening Todd. Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad you're enjoying the lessons.
When you center the harmonica and use your lower lip to create a single note (and most likely tilt the face of the harmonica down slightly) this is called the pucker embouchure. The pucker embouchure is not a bad embouchure, it just doesn't have as many options to it. There are players (I was one for many years) that would TB for the TB-exclusive techniques and pucker for bending. This is not a bad way of playing, though it does require you to switch between embouchures while playing.
The key to TB bending is in humping up your tongue. No strange contortions are needed, just experimenting with what part of your tongue you hump up, and how far forward (higher bends) or how far back (lower bends) you hump your tongue.
Experiment with raising your tongue and see where this gets you.
Report back after a couple days of practice and let me know how it's going.